Sydney
It is with broken hearts that we, the family, announce the passing of our mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and sister, Alfreda ‘Bidda’ Confiant on Tuesday, July 6, 2021, just shy of her 100th birthday.
Born in Sydney in 1921, Bidda was the daughter of the late William and Leontine (Leon) Gaudet.
Mom loved to sing and spent many happy years with the St. Theresa’s Church choir, Memory Lane Singers, and several other coral groups. She was a member of the St. Theresa’s Ladies Aid and started the very first Cub Pack at St. Theresa’s parish.
She loved to dance and couldn’t sit still once the music started. She loved to laugh, and she was her happiest at her summer home. For over 50 years she spent her summers at the bungalow in Mira with her family and friends. Everyone was welcome and there was always food, drink, and music. It was here she taught her grandchildren how to have fun, thus gifting them with the most beautiful memories. But most of all, Mom loved to love. Every encounter began with a hug and ended with an “I love you”. She was grateful for the joy in her life and accepting of the sorrow. Her life was a shining example of how faith and love can carry you through.
Bidda is survived by her daughter, Maureen (Steve) Sokol; sons, John (Jane), Wayne (Janet), Paul (Marlene), Douglas (Bernadette) and Gary (Arlene); daughter-in-law, Dorothy Confiant; sister, Sr. Lillian Gaudet; as well as 14 grandchildren and 15 great-grandchildren.
Besides her parents, Bidda was predeceased by her husband and the love of her life, Maurice; sons, Francis and David; grandson, Darren; sisters, Annie Bethune, Marguerite Maisonneuve, Georgette Adams, Marie-Jeanne Gaudet, Eliza Maxwell-Pitman and brother, Edmond Gaudet.
There will be no visitation for the late Bidda Confiant. Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, July 15, 2021, at 11 a.m. at St. Theresa’s Church, Sydney with Fr. Everett MacDow officiating. Interment will be in Resurrection Cemetery, Sydney Forks.
Covid protocols will be practiced at the Mass.
Donations in memory of Bidda may be made to a charity of one’s choice.
Funeral arrangements are entrusted to the care and direction of Pier Community Funeral Home.
A ship sails and I stand watching till she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says; “She’s gone”. And just at that moment, there are others who are watching her coming over their horizon and voices take up a glad shout; “There she comes”.
Online Condolences
Gary and family sorry to hear the passing of your mother
From: Gerald and Karen Pino
Maureen , Steve and family, so sorry to read of your mom passing . You are all in my thoughts and prayers . Bless all of u. May she RIP Pat Chase
From: Pat Chase Porters Lake, Halifax, NS
We are thinking of you at this time of deep sadness. Our condolences to all. Take care of each other and know you are not alone.
From: Kathy MacDonald
Doug, Bernadette and family,
Nicole, Matthew, Paula, Ella, and I are so sorry to hear of your Mom’s passing. Matthew enjoyed meeting “Bidda” at the bungalow. Bidda must have been a lovely lady to raise such a kind, caring family. Our prayers are with you. Hugs
From: Patricia Jacobs
So sorry for your loss. She was a special lady who always had a kind way about her. Hoping that with the help of family, friends and all your good memories of her help to bring you some comfort during this difficult time. Hugs and prayers .
From: Linda Thompson nee Nicholson
I will always cherish the memories we had and i will hold onto them forever you taught me so much, going to miss you alot love you so much, say hi to dad up there for me and take care ❤️
To the Confiant Family & Friend’s
We are so saddened to hear of Bidda’s passing. She was a fun Spirited Lady who enjoyed a good joke, as well as tell one!! She Loved her Children, Grandchildren, friends & neighbors!
I Loved listening to the stories Bidda & Mrs.Moore would tell sitting on the deck outside on a sunny day when both lived in the area. Sending Virtual Hugs and Prayers to you all. Know you are in our hearts. Love Rick & Maureen ❤💕
Sending our heartfelt condolences. A lovely lady who we know will be missed. Sincerely,
Deepest condolences going out to the Confiant family. Hoping the memories you have will help you during this difficult time. Losing a Mom is like losing the glue that holds the family together. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
My deepest condolences to all of Bidda’s family. Bidda was a wonderful neighbour , always laughing. RIP Bidda, soar with the Angels.
So sorry for your loss,Our thoughts and prayers are with you all .Mike and Rachael Ferrar
I am truly sorry for the loss of your Mom, grandmother, great grandmother , sister, Aunt, Mother in law and Best friend. I have you all in my thoughts and Prayers. May Bidda R.I.P.
To the entire Confiant Family….we are so very sorry for your loss. You have so many happy memories of her. You are all in our thoughts and prayers
Sorry for your loss, sending my Condolences to the family
So ,so sorry for your loss. She was such a beautiful person
Prayers to the family
MY CONDOLENCE TO THE CONFIANT FAMILY SHE WAS A GREAT LADY
Confiant family:
Our deepest condolences, on the passing of your beautiful mother.
She was always laughing and was a wonderful neighbour for many years. Cherish the great memories you have to help ease the pain. May she RIP.
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are you with you all.
I send my condolences to the Confiant family on your loss.. I have you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Hugs
Janet, Wayne and Family—So sorry to hear of your loss. Hugs and condolences to all of the family at this time.
To the Confiant family
Our sincere condolences on the passing of your Mom. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Debbie and Darlene MacIntyre
To the Confiant family
Our sincere condolences on the passing of your Mom. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Debbie MacIntyre, Mickey Cipak
Darlene & Ray Morrison
Condolences to Wayne, Janet and all the Confiant family on the loss of your wonderful mother. The whole Dwyer family felt fortunate to have such a gracious next-door neighbour as Bidda. – Brian & Anne Marie Dwyer
Sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Wayne, Janet& Family ,
So sorry for your loss
Anne Marie & Donnie MacAskill
To the whole Confiant family I send my love & condolences on the loss of your beautiful Mom…… she was such a wonderful neighbour & friend of our Dwyer family. I truly loved when she popped over for tea … her stories & enjoyable chats bring back such wonderful memories. Much love , Elaine (Dwyer) Samson
The Confiant Family……please accept our deepest condolences on the death of your mom. We have so many fond memories of life at the “bungalow” and your mom’s loving presence. She was always glad to see us……she was a very gracious hostess! We will miss her. Thanks for everything Bidda …RIP. The Fogarty Family
So sorry to hear about Bidda’s passing. Bidda was such an amazing lady, full of fun and happiness and always had a smile to share. When I’d make it to Sydney, Bidda was always one of my destinations.
Blessings to each of the Confiants.
Maureen really hoping to see you this year.
To my next door neighbor and friend Maureen, and her brothers John, Wayne, Paul, Douglas and Gary, I offer you my condolences and prayers on the passing of your mother, Bidda Confiant. She will always be fondly remembered by our Dwyer family and I can attest to the warm and welcoming feelings always present at your Mira bungalow, having had many visits there as I was growing up. Love to all of you and your individual families. Will be with you in Spirit tomorrow. Best Wishes to all. Valerie and Howard Oehmen